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Unequally Yoked and Suffering? Come Out!

IF YOU’RE LIVING IN A CURSED SITUATION AND ARE SUFFERING….GET OUT!!!!!GOD CAN Jesus and meNOT AND WILL NOT BLESS A CURSED THING!!!!!COME OUT AND BE YE SEPARATE SAITH THE LORD!

YOU WANT GOD’S BLESSINGS BUT HE CAN NOT AND HE WILL NOT BLESS YOU IF YOU ARE UNEQUALLY YOKED TOGETHER AND LIVING UNDER A CURSE!!!!! YOU HAVE GIVEN SATAN CONTROL….PHARAOH AND AS LONG AS YOU ALLOW PHARAOH TO “WHIP YOU” WITH HIS WORDS, PUT YOU IN CHAINS AND KEEP YOU IN BONDAGE, GOD WILL NOT INTERFERE TO GET YOU OUT! YOU HAVE CHOSEN THAT ABUSE, SO HE WILL LET YOU STAY THEREFORE UNTIL YOU DECIDE, IT’S ENOUGH AND ……COME OUT, IT DOESN’T MATTER HOW LONG YOU PRAY, MOAN AND GROAN, BEGGING FOR GOD’S HELP, IF YOU WON’T TAKE THE FIRST STEP AND DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT GOD CAN NOT HELP YOU! FAITH WITHOUT WORKS IS DEAD!

 

JUST LIKE THE ISRAELITES WERE KEPT IN BONDAGE FOR 40 YEARS, THEY DID NOT GET OUT TILL MOSES LED THEM OUT……WELL NOW……HIS GRACE…..IS LEADING YOU OUT, TELLING YOU TO GO….GET OUT! LEAVE EGYPT AND COME OUT!!!!! I AM LEADING YOU OUT! GOD IS LEADING YOU OUT BY…..HIS GRACE!!!!!!

YOU ARE LIVING IN SIN! YOU SINNED BY MARRYING THE PERSON, OR LIVING COMMON LAW, IN THE FIRST PLACE! YOUR MARRIAGE WAS NOT ORDAINED OF GOD, IF YOU MARRIED AN UNBELIEVER! ASK GOD FOR FORGIVENESS, THEN LEAVE…….WALK OUT THAT DOOR…..EVEN IF IT IS TO THE NEAREST SHELTER FOR BATTERED WOMEN/MEN BUT WALK OUT, LEAVE EVERYTHING BEHIND BUT YOUR PERSONAL THINGS IF YOU HAVE TOO!

 

G.E. said “I WAS LIVING IN AN ABUSED SITUATION IN L.A. YES GOD PLACED ME THERE IN THE BEGINNING. THIS MAN WAS A CHRISTIAN BUT NOT FOLLOWING IN GOD’S WAYS. GOD HAD HIM IN THE RIGHT PLACE AT THE RIGHT TIME TO MEET ME IN THAT PARKING LOT IN THE HUNTINGTON BEACH LIBRARY, IN CALIFORNIA IN 2006. GOD HAD EVEN GIVEN HIM A DREAM OF A BLONDE WOMAN COMING INTO HIS MOTORHOME 3-4 YRS BEFORE HE EVEN MET ME! GOD TOLD HIM TO CARE FOR HER WHEN SHE CAME…..IT WAS ME! HE WAS SO KIND AT FIRST, VERY LOVING, KIND AND CARING. WITHOUT HIS HELP OVER THOSE 4-5 YRS, I NEVER WOULD HAVE MADE IT BUT IT BECAME AN ABUSIVE SITUATION AFTER A YEAR OR SO BECAUSE OF HIS BINGE DRINKING. THOSE DEMONS OF ALCOHOLISM IN HIM,  NEARLY KILLED ME! HE THREW ME OUT INTO THE COLD NIGHT MANY MANY TIMES! HIS CURSED WORDS NEARLY TOOK ME UNDER!!HE ABANDONED ME ALL THE TIME, LEAVING ME AT THE LIBRARY AND NOT RETURNING WITH HIS MOTORHOME….JUST GONE FOR THE WEEKEND! THERE I WAS…ALL ALONE, NOWHERE TO STAY FOR THE NIGHT, COLD AND CRYING!

I MOANED AND I GROANED. I CRIED AND I CRIED SO DEEPLY, I THOUGHT I WOULD DIE SOMETIMES! I WRENCHED IN PAIN ON MY BED IN THE BACK OF THAT MOTORHOME, HOLDING IT ALL IN ALL THE TIME BECAUSE IF I DARED LET IT OUT AND LET HIM KNOW I WAS CRYING, HE WOULD HAVE A FIT! I EVEN BEGGED GOD TO TAKE ME! “PLEASE LORD….LET A TRUCK RUN OVER ME! LET ME DIE! I DON’T CARE ANYNMORE ABOUT MY DESTINY WITH THE MAN YOU HAVE ORDAINED FOR ME TO BE MY HUSBAND OR THE MINISTRY UP AHEAD! I CAN’T TAKE IT ANYMORE!!! NOT ONE MORE DAY LORD!!!!! IT’S TOOOOO MUCH LORD!!!! TOOOOO MUCH! GOD GET ME OUT OF HERE LORD NOW! GET ME OUT OF HERE! JESUS HELP ME!!!!!”

WELL, HE DID NOT HELP ME TILL I MADE THE DECISION TO GET OUT, TO BUY THAT TICKET FOR THE TRAIN BACK TO CANADA AND LEAVE BEFORE I WAS DEAD, EMOTIONALLY AND PSYCHICALLY AND SPIRITUALLY! I HAD HAD ENOUGH AFTER 4 YRS!!! ENOUGH!…BROKEN AND SO DOWN BUT I WAS FREE!!!! I WAS GOING TO LIVE NOW! I HAD ABSOLUTELY NOWHERE TO GO WHEN I GOT BACK TO MY HOMELAND, CANADA….VANCOUVER BUT I DID NOT CARE! I WOULD SLEEP OUTSIDE IN THE RAIN IF I HAD TO BUT ANYTHING WAS BETTER THAN IN THAT MOTORHOME WITH A MAD MAN!

I GOT BACK, SAT IN MC DONALD’S THE FIRST NIGHT….BEGGED FOR HELP FROM MY SON THE SECOND NIGHT, OF WHICH HE TURNED ME AWAY!!!! HALF-SLEPT 3 HRS THAT NIGHT IN A LUXURY HOTEL WASHROOM TILL I GOT KICKED OUT AT 3:00 A.M., THEN OUTSIDE I SAT TILL 5:00 WHEN THE COFFEE SHOP OPENED UP!

FINALLY A FRIEND, PUT ME IN A SALVATION ARMY SHELTER WHERE I STAYED FOR 1 MONTH, THEN THEY KICKED ME OUT! I WAS OF COURSE, TRYING TO HELP MYSELF AND GET THINGS TOGETHER BUT IT WAS NOT WORKING! GOD THEN OPENED A DOOR TO ANOTHER SHELTER WHERE I WAS FOR A MONTH. THERE THEY HELPED ME FIND A BASEMENT SUITE (OF WHICH NOW I JUST MOVED OUT OF) THEY ALSO HELPED ME GET SOME SECOND HAND FURNITURE FROM, OF ALL PLACES….THE “AMAZING GRACE CHURCH”!!!!! WHERE I SAW THE FIG TREE, I KNEW I HAD TO HAVE! IT IS NOW MY “BURNING BUSH” WHERE I PRAY EVERY NIGHT! WHERE GOD’S ANOINTING IS SOOOO STRONG! IT WAS GOD WHO GOT ME MY SUITE, MY FURNITURE AND SET ME BACK UP ON MY FEET! IT WAS GOD HOW PLACED JANET, MY NEIGHBOR BESIDES ME TO HELP ME WITH MY FINANCES TO GET ASSISTANCE FROM THE GOVERNMENT FOR SENIORS ETC! WITHOUT HER HELP, I MAY NOT HAVE MADE IT! SO GOD USED THIS CRAZY MAN IN THE MOTORHOME TO HELP ME, USED JANET HERE IN CANADA TO GET ME OUT AND ESTABLISHED AGAIN, TO SET ME UP IN SOCIETY AGAIN!

I WAS SO TRAUMATIZED, IT TOOK 6 MONTHS OF GODS INNER HEALING ON ME BEFORE I COULD “BREATHE AGAIN”……AND FEEL LIKE A NORMAL PERSON! I HAVE FORGIVEN THIS MAN AND LOVE HIM DEARLY! BUT I WILL NEVER LIVE IN PHAROAH’S HOUSE AGAIN! I HAD TO MAKE THE DECISION TO COME OUT! GET OUT OF THERE AND NEVER GO BACK, NO MATTER WHAT!

GOD WAS TESTING ME, SATAN WAS RAVAGING ME, EATING ME ALIVE!!! I HAD TO GO THROUGH IT ALL! IT ALL WAS PART OF GOD’S BIG PLAN FOR ME, FOR I HAD TO KNOW WHAT YOU PEOPLE FEEL LIKE, WHAT YOU GO THROUGH, HOW YOU SUFFER IN PAIN AND AGONY, SO THAT I WOULD KNOW HOW TO MINISTER TO YOU, SO I WOULD HAVE COMPASSION FOR YOU, UNDERSTAND YOUR NEEDS AND FEELINGS AND KNOW NOW TO COUNSEL YOU, WITH THE WISDOM AND UNDERSTANDING OF GOD ALMIGHTY!!!

I AM NOT SUGGESTING IN ANY WAY JUST BECAUSE YOU ARE UNHAPPY WITH YOUR HUSBAND, YOU CAN LEAVE! NOT AT ALL!!! ONLY IF THE MAN IS ABUSING YOU VERBALLY, EMOTIONALLY, PHYSICALLY DAY AFTER DAY AFTER DAY…..FOR YEARS! YOU HAVE PRAYED FOR HIM……DONE DELIVERANCE OVER HIM…..AND DONE….ALL! IF NO CHANGE…THEN YOU CAN LEAVE! YOU’VE BEEN TRAUMATIZED, ABUSED LONG ENOUGH! YOU HAVE DONE YOUR PART….LOVED HIM, CARED FOR HIM AND DONE HIS LAUNDRY AND GIVEN HIM SEX! THEREFORE HE HAS MADE YOU NO MORE THAN A MAID AND A SEX OBJECT! BEING UNEQUALLY YOKED IS BEING YOKED WITH AN UNBELIEVER, AS THE SCRIPTURES SAY IN 1 COR 6….AN UNBELIEVER BEING ONE WHO HAS NOT GIVEN HIMSELF TO THE LORD”. THANK YOU G.E. FOR SHARING.

ALTHOUGH THIS DOES NOT DIRECTLY GIVE A CHRISTIAN WOMAN RIGHT TO LEAVE HER CHRISTIAN HUSBAND, IT DOES GIVE RIGHT FOR A CHRISTIAN WOMAN TO LEAVE AN UNBELIEVING HUSBAND! THE PROBLEM IS MARRYING HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE! THE SIN WAS COMMITTED WHEN YOU MARRIED! GOD CAN NOT BLESS THAT …..HOW COULD HE?

IF GOD DID NOT JOIN YOU, THEN YOU HAVE NO OBLIGATION TO STAY AND SUFFER ANY LONGER!

BE NOT UNEQUALLY JOINED TOGETHER, THE WORD SAYS! GOD WANTS YOU….OUT!!! ASK FORGIVENESS FOR BEING JOINED TO AN UNBELIEVER AND LEAVE YOUR PAST BEHIND AND WALK INTO YOUR NEW FUTURE, WHATEVER THAT IS! BE STRONG! BE LIFTED UP AND BE RESTORED, RENEWED AND REFRESHED BUT YOU’VE GOT TO COME OUT!

2 Corinthians 6:14-18 – Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?

2 Timothy 3:5 – Having a form of godliness, but denying the power thereof: from such turn away.

2 Thessalonians 3:6 – Now we command you, brethren, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that ye withdraw yourselves from every brother that walketh disorderly, and not after the tradition which he received of us.

Romans 14:1-23 – Him that is weak in the faith receive ye, [but] not to doubtful disputations.    

Deuteronomy 7:3-4 – Neither shalt thou make marriages with them; thy daughter thou shalt not give unto his son, nor his daughter shalt thou take unto thy son.

2 Corinthians 6:17 – Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean [thing]; and I will receive you,

TAKE A STEP OF FAITH AND COME OUT! WITH GOD….ALL THINGS ARE POSSIBLE!

ASK GOD TO SHOW YOU WHAT TO DO, TO GIVE YOU WISDOM TO HOW TO DO THINGS. ASK HIM TO SHOW YOU WHERE TO GO AND WHAT TO DO. HE WILL SHOW YOU…… ONE STEP AT A TIME!

LORD HELP THEM NOW TO MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION! LEAD THEM BY YOUR HOLY SPIRIT AND POWER! PUT THEM BESIDES THE RIGHT PEOPLE AND THE RIGHT TIME TO HELP THEM.  JESUS STRENGTH THEM! PUT YOUR ARMS AROUND THEM, COMFORT THEM AND GIVE THEM PEACE AND REST! LORD IF THEY ARE TO STAY FOR WHATEVER REASON, THEN SHOW THEM THAT TOO….YOUR WILL LORD FOR WE ONLY WANT YOUR PERCECT WILL, NOT OURS TO THESE MY BROTHERS AND SISTERS! BLESS THEM NOW IN YOUR NAME WE PRAY…..AMEN AND AMEN!!!!

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